How to Start Over Again When It Seems Everything is Falling Apart

Life is full of ups and downs. Unpredictable events happen every day whether you like it or not. It is possible that you have ventured into a business or career with the intention of making profits but all of a  sudden you realize that instead of making the profit you’re are running into losses and you are discouraged and the only option you could think of is to quit. It could also be a loss of job or contract, whatever it might be just realize it is part of life.

As I’ve earlier said, this is part of everyday life. Resilience, determination, and focus on the positive side of life are needed to overcome this threat and bounce back strong and fearless.

Probably, this might be your challenge right now but can I tell you something, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Everyone you have seen bubbling with life today has passed through this face of life including I myself that is writing this article. My own side of the story might even be worst than your own because right from childhood growing up, to feed, cloth and attend college was tough but I was not deterred by my present circumstances because I had this understanding that everything that I was passing through was temporary and that one day everything will become a story and today I’m happy that the things that I have passed through only made me stronger and wiser to face and maneuver through life more diplomatically.

Here are ways you can start over again when it seems everything is falling apart.

1. Identify the Challenge

In order for you to start life all over again, it is very important to identify what triggered or what caused your fall and deal with it first so as to prevent the future occurrence of such negative trends. It is very dangerous if the source and the cause of the identified.

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If you have just ended a long-term relationship, what difficulties do you foresee in the near future? You may need to find a new living situation, reconnect with old friends, or get used to being alone again.

2. Gain a Fresh Perspective

To break free from our limitations, we’ve got to take a step back and gain a fresh perspective on just what limitations really are. On the surface, limitations are things that prevent you from doing something, but if you dig deeper, you’ll find that limitations are the things that keep you constrained inside a loop.

3. Check-in With Your Values and Priorities

After you’ve identified the cause of your downfall it is very important to know what you are best at so that you can channel your energy, time, and resources in the right direction.

It will be foolish to make the same mistake again and again without learning lessons.


It’s possible to make life changes and learn how to start over. Don’t become a person who lets life pass them by only to regret it when you’re retired or far into old age. Don’t let your life plateau and waste away in the daily grind for the next twenty years while wasting the potential you still have.

Tired of being held back by your limitations? It’s time to break free from them and start living out your best days.

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